Sunday, April 21, 2013

The movers are coming, the movers are coming!

One if by land... they aren't coming by sea, so it will just be one by land. As well, for some reason, Paul Revere's ride seems more heroic than if I did it.

Probably because the movers aren't Redcoats.

Anyway today was spent (and is ongoing) getting ready for the movers to come TOMORROW. A lot of last minute packing and cleaning. Fortunately we have Japanese movers who I imagine are extremely efficient at packing.

Tomorrow is going to be crappy and hectic I imagine. Jennifer will likely be like this (graphic) and I will likely be like this (not so graphic).

I probably shouldn't even blogging right now, and should be actively cleaning/packing, but I am a world renowned expert on procrastination.
I guess I kinda found a picture for it now... oops
While tomorrow is going to stink, unpacking on the other end is always just as bad. Houses end up exploding.

Well I am going to keep this short and to the point. Likely when Jennifer learns I wasted time doing this, I can be found in a position such as the ostrich.

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Holy Crap, we still have this thing!

This is still here? Well, might as well post, who knows, maybe this will one day be the last written record of man's existence. In which case, may as well give those alien archaeologists a better image of man:
The Nuge shall live forever.
So my last post was Oct 2011. And I think that the last post on here was Mar 2012. We really haven't been trying. We should have at least done one 12:01 AM December 22st, 2012 to announce we had survived the apocalypse just fine over here in Japan for all you statesiders (way to go on that one Mayans).

FYI Next apocalypse is scheduled for 2016
ANYWHO speaking of statesiders, Jennifer and I will once again be amongst... well usually this sentence ends with "The Living", but in this case I am referring to continental Americans. Although maybe that is the living since the average Asian looks like this:
YAY HONG KONG!
By the end of April I will back in the... well usually that sentence ends with USSR, but in this case I am referring to the USA. We will be coming back plus one: Gabriel Constantine Valdyke (named thus so that it makes sense that he has a life long ambition of conquering nations or leading empires). In the meantime I just need to make sure we get him a seat on the airplane I guess. I believe out flight back will be like this. Or maybe we will travel by line like Indiana Jones.

I am going to miss Japan. Jennifer is going to be more like this. Never again will I ride Godzilla or go whaling. I will miss the vending machines, clown cars and convenient stores. I am now a big proponent of NOT TIPPING. And everywhere I go I am surrounded by beautiful mountains and can likely find an awesome ocean view or a hidden temple.

For those of you don't, we are going to be in Mayport, Florida. I am going to be the Damage Control Assistant onboard the USS Gettysburg (CG 64). I imagine this is my next CO and XO:
The reason they will be Confederates is because we are stationed in the South.
Well, hopefully I update this a little more regularly in the future. If you really just want to read a blog by me, check out this one. It is updated much more often. Yeah, so I am self promoting, and probably in a bleh place to do it, but any publicity is good publicity right? Let me just ask my panel of experts: Amanda Bynes, Lindsay Lohan and Mel Gibson...

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Nagasaki Lantern Festival

It's been a while, but I'll catch up you.

Evan's ship was supposed to leave in January, but do to some mechanical problems, it was better to fix the issue instead of get underway. So, Evan stayed around for another month. Yay! Right before he was supposed to leave, we went to the Nagasaki Lantern Festival with a couple friends of ours. We went on a weekday which meant that Nagasaki was far less crowded. We waited until the boys got of work before we left. So we didn't get to Nagasaki until about 6:30. We walked down Chinatown and to the main arena seeing several lanterns and light displays. Since Evan's ship was supposed to leave, I chanced going to Nagasaki again without him with an MWR trip. He stayed home, slept in, and played games all day while I got some amazing shots I didn't get to before. I was able to travel a lot more given that we had several hours instead of a few. I broke away from the large group to see as many places as I could.
They even had dinosaurs!
A Chinese violinist. I don't know how she was able to ply because it was so cold out. My fingers were freezing in my pockets.
Dancing dragons put on by a team of high school girls.

All in all, it was good fun. I was really, really cold and our shipment hadn't gotten in yet with all of our stuff, including my winter clothes, so I wore Evan's jacket. It was super crowded and I didn't get to see some of the shows the put on because I couldn't see over other people and then I had to leave.

If you'd like to learn more about the Nagasaki Lantern Festival, look here for about it's origins and traditions.

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Crash, Bang, Boom


This is our car. This, of course, is our car after the wreck we got into. Our car is probably 4.5 meters long (or 14.76 feet). The point of impact is clearly right behind the driver's seat on the rear car door. We are both very grateful he didn't hit the driver's door. Jennifer was driving.

The morning started different than most mornings. Evan left his phone charger on the ship and his phone was dead, so he relied solely on his watch to wake up. We woke up at 0631. Since there is some walking distance from the parking lot to the ship, it would be easier if Jennifer drove Evan to the closest point to decrease the distance he had to walk. We left the house at 0635. We were leaving the cho trying to turn right. Keeping in mind that Japan drives on the opposite side of the road as America, in order to turn right, we have to cross two lanes of traffic going left.

There is a small (very small) space for the car to sit to turn. It is not a complete turning lane. There was zero traffic coming from the right (the two closest lanes) and there was traffic coming from the left. When Jennifer pulled into the turning area, a bus had stopped across the street causing two lanes of traffic to merge into one, leaving fewer chances to merge into traffic going right. All wasn't bad at this point. But then...

Traffic began to come from the right (in those first two lanes) we still weren't in danger because there was an opportunity to merge into traffic without causing a wreck ourselves. We could make it, however, the first vehicle in the traffic heading our way, in the inside lane was steady in its speed. Yet we saw the gap in the cars. We could make it. The van didn't slow down, but the gap in the cars was getting closer. Unfortunately, so was the van. For some reason, this van did not slow down or stop. We still do not know the reason for this.

As soon as the gap in the cars was available, Jennifer gunned it. Less than a second later, the van plowed into the rear seat, driver side door. It spun our car 180 degrees. What boggles us is that the car did not think enough to slow down, swerve to avoid hitting us, or stop. Why, oh why, did the driver not slow down? He was the first car in its lane, there were no obstructions to seeing us. It was dark, but there were street lights, and as he approached us, he should have been able to see us and slow down.

The speed limit is 50 kilometers per hour on that road. Presuming he was going the speed limit, he was going as fast as 31 miles per hour. If we consider that he was the first car, leading the pack, and in the faster lane, he was going AT LEAST 31 mph. This happened at 0640. We called the military security who managed to show up an hour later. The Japanese police talked to the other driver for all of 10 minutes. They talked to Jennifer for 2 hours trying to figure out what happened.

At about 0930, the tow truck arrived to take our car to base where it will wait until the verdict arrives from the insurance company on the fate of our car. Insurance here works differently than in America (or anywhere else for that matter). They can choose to use the police report or not. They can conduct their own investigation and go by that instead. When Evan went to the insurance company to tell what happened, they told him that it sounds like it was the other guy's fault because we were stopped in the road. Had we been moving into the line of traffic and then gotten hit, it would have been our fault because we moved into traffic. Insurance companies cover the cost of the car, but they don't cover any cost for personal injuries.

Our questions that still remain:
  • Why didn't he (or the passenger in his vehicle) see us and slow down?
  • What questions did the Japanese police ask the other guy?
  • How fast was he going? Was he distracted?
  • How was he able to see us from 100 yards away and not react yet every other car on the highway stopped within the few seconds this happening?
  • How did the police look at our car and think the point of impact was on the driver's door, 1.4 meters from the front of the car? It's clearly the L-shaped dent in the back door. Anything infront of that was where our car hit the side of his fender as it spun into traffic.
  • Why wasn't he questioned more than 10 minutes?
We are thankful no one was hurt. And we are thankful that there weren't additional accidents due to our car going into other, oncoming lanes of traffic. We hope and pray that our insurance company fights for us to put the blame on the other driver who failed to pay attention to the road in front of him. We are still waiting to find out the results of their investigation.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Paying Responsibly

I was fortunate enough to get a scholarship that covered tuition and fees and even gave me a monthly stipend. It also sent me on some summer activities where I got paid as well. Unfortunately, the scholarship did not cover everything (like a place to sleep and food to eat), so I had to take out some student loans. All in all, it totaled up to about $8000. And I was really looking forward to paying it back after I graduated. Not just because there was a financial burden lurking on my credit score, but because it meant that I had a job! I had the ability to take responsibility and give the bank back its money.

It is a pleasure to see the money dwindle down to zero. I am not quite sure why other than it means I can pay it back. It's almost like I'm tricking Sallie Mae. For instance, they are only asking me to pay about $20/month and yet, I've already paid off the biggest loan I had that also had the highest interest. That probably cut my 10 years repayment schedule down to 3 years or so, or it just means much lower repayment each month. Granted, I don't have a job yet and all that money was left over from the money I earned during my last semester (it pays to be a wife, ironically). I did not have to spend as much of my own money during my last semester, therefore saving that money I would have used and using it to pay back the loans.

I have used almost all the leftover money to repay the loans and I have applied for a couple jobs. I am keeping my fingers crossed that I get one soon so I can finish paying the loans off faster. And then whatever money I earn goes towards building up savings and investing my money into a high yield return. I don't like spending money and will typically have a very frustrating and unproductive shopping trip when I walk into a store. I don't really like shopping with other people, but other times it can help me make a decision when I need to get something. If I'm just browsing, I'll probably drop everything and leave the store or talk myself out of what is in my hands because I can make do with what I already have.

I don't think that's a bad thing at all. There are some people I know who can't wait to go shopping with their paycheck and then they complain about not having money to spend on themselves. Yes, well, that's because they are playing the game wrong. The idea is to not spend frivolously as soon as you get the money. It's to get the money and then wait until everyone else is broke to go shopping so it looks like you're rich. And when everyone else isn't shopping or spending, you're less likely to spend and shop.

(I just made that up, but it sounds good so I'll keep it.)

I can say honestly that I am looking forward to a paycheck again. Additionally, I am looking forward to most of that money going into savings.